I would like to think I am a giver because I get genuine enjoyment out of brightening people’s day. Personally, being a taker would imply that there are unspoken debts in place and I don’t like the pressure of having to repay someone for their act of kindness. In the same note however, I make it a point to make sure the receiver doesn’t feel obligated to repay me for my generosity as the enjoyment they get from receiving is enough of a payment for me.